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When you feel like giving up


Storm on Sea by Ivan Constantinovich Aivazovsky, 1899
Storm on Sea by Ivan Constantinovich Aivazovsky, 1899

Remember Winston Churchill’s words to Harrow School on a visit in October of 1941:

Never give in. Never give in. Never, never, never, never–in nothing, great or small, large or petty–never give in, except to convictions of honor and good sense. Never yield to force. Never yield to the apparently overwhelming might of the enemy.

He could not have known fully what was to come. It was only 1941, and several years of terrible, unspeakable war were ahead. Churchill did also say in that same speech something that does, however, lead me to believe he had an inkling:

But we must learn to be equally good at what is short and sharp and what is long and tough. It is generally said that the British are often better at the last. They do not expect to move from crisis to crisis; they do not always expect that each day will bring up some noble chance of war; but when they very slowly make up their minds that the thing has to be done and the job put through and finished, then, even if it takes months - if it takes years - they do it.

Another lesson I think we may take, just throwing our minds back to our meeting here ten months ago and now, is that appearances are often very deceptive, and as Kipling well says, we must “…meet with Triumph and Disaster. And treat those two impostors just the same.”

You cannot tell from appearances how things will go. Sometimes imagination makes things out far worse than they are; yet without imagination not much can be done. Those people who are imaginative see many more dangers than perhaps exist; certainly many more than will happen; but then they must also pray to be given that extra courage to carry this far-reaching imagination.

I feel like giving up almost daily.

I stop and pray. Sometimes there is a breakthrough and the clouds powerfully part and the sun shines through. Sometimes there is no breakthrough, only new struggles. I was struck in Churchill’s speech by the quote from Kipling to treat Triumph and Disaster just the same (from the classic poem “If” by Rudyard Kipling). Which is with courage and humility. As the Bible says, give thanks in all things.

Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. 1 Thessalonians 5:18

Be strong today.

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6 Responses

  1. Fencepost November 20th, 2009 at 3:36 pm

    When I get to that point, it’s one day at a time, one thing at a time, one step at a time and then I sleep on it.

  2. Heather November 20th, 2009 at 5:09 pm

    The timing of this was so absolutely stunningly perfect. Thank you.

  3. Julie November 21st, 2009 at 10:49 am

    Jen - I am so in the same place. And I know you understand! But I kind of like being in seasons like this (remember, seasons change!) because it’s in these kinds of times that we are learning and growing as people by leaps and bounds as we climb these super hard mountains.

    Kind of like climbing at SMith - you get to a spot that seems impossible, stare at it for awhile, ponder the plan, try something - fall - try something else - fall…try something else - and it starts to work and you pull yourself up and suddendly you are at a new level, new plateau…and new challenge to pull yourself up to the next spot.

    http://www.runninggalinsights.blogspot.com

  4. Julie O'Neill November 21st, 2009 at 4:49 pm

    THis post inspired my post today….thanks!!

  5. mrs darling November 23rd, 2009 at 11:16 am

    Great post. I have to say I seldom get to the place that I feel like giving up. But years ago, something like 35 years ago.. I was in a place like that and it was awful. Keep your chin up.

  6. Amanda December 7th, 2009 at 12:18 pm

    Hi Jen, I didn’t know how to contact you otherwise. I have a favor to ask. We are buying gifts for a child in the community who wants Steelers stuff….if I order it now could I pick it up from youhour husband locally instead of shipping?? I need it by Sunday so I can take it to church….or would it get shipped by then?

    Thanks,
    Amanda Perko

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