Comments on: You Know Your Mother Has Alzheimer’s When

By: Blog Perks

Blog Perks — Fri, 01 Aug 2008 22:02:41 +0000

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By: JHS

JHS — Sat, 10 Nov 2007 19:55:30 +0000

Been there, done that. It isn’t pretty. In her lucid moments, she probably knows that she is losing it. My mother did. We had to gently convince her that she could no longer live alone and get her into an assisted living environment where she would be safe.

I wish you all the best . . . and a lot of patience.

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By: Jen

Jen — Mon, 05 Nov 2007 15:31:24 +0000

Thank you, EVERYONE, for the kind comments!!! I’ll write more another time about my mom…I’m actually not sure what all her issues are, and her doctor is concerned with her increasing confusion, but it’s not a definite Alzheimer’s diagnosis. She has a lifetime history of sporadic mental instability, but there are also some Asperger-type symptoms. Right now, she has some good days, bad days, and in between days. I’m mostly okay, I’ve been caregiving since I was a child, so in a way I’m just used to this.

Grace, you’re right, it’s hard for my mom as well. She realizes that her brain doesn’t function quite right. She does best when I can get her out in the trees and mountains and sunshine, so we try to spend as much time as possible outside. She’s usually physically healthy – other than frequent migraines – and can go on little hikes and nature walks.

By: Robert at Kintropy

Robert at Kintropy — Mon, 05 Nov 2007 06:05:23 +0000

I’m sure your mother appreciates the help and support. It’s hard to see someone you love go through this: the third-time repeated story, the close family names that slip away. Our best wishes to your mom and your family as you work to support each other.

By: Melitsa

Melitsa — Mon, 05 Nov 2007 05:21:24 +0000

Thank you for sharing this sensitive post with the Carnival of Family Life- bonfire edition.

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Carnival of Family life- Bonfire edition | Play-Activities.com — Mon, 05 Nov 2007 05:17:49 +0000

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By: Jane

Jane — Sun, 04 Nov 2007 03:27:09 +0000

What a tough situation for all. I have always thought that this is such a sad disease in many ways, though I do remember a heart warming story of an elderly lady who used to go to our church. She was very involved in music and loved to sing. She developed Alzheimers and had to live in an extended care home in her last years but she was so at peace and what continually came out of her mouth was hymns- almost all day. I thought that was so cool. Anyways, back to your post. I will pray for you all.

By: e-Mom

e-Mom — Sat, 03 Nov 2007 18:30:21 +0000

How frustrating for you! I didn’t realize your Mom had Alzheimer’s. You are a real trooper. I hope your weekend goes more smoothly from here on… :~)

By: Karen

Karen — Sat, 03 Nov 2007 15:08:08 +0000

I recently watched my mother and mother-in-law go through similar times, one with her father and the other with her mother. I don’t know why, but they both refused to get involved with any kind of support group. I urged them to. I wish they had. Good for you for doing it.

By: mandi

mandi — Sat, 03 Nov 2007 08:15:55 +0000

May the grace of God abound in you through this my friend. I will be praying for you.
Hugs,
Mandi

By: Grace

Grace — Sat, 03 Nov 2007 06:53:20 +0000

Jen, it must be hard for you but also your mom. I hope you can find balance and support during these episodes in your home.

By: Kathleen

Kathleen — Fri, 02 Nov 2007 22:58:53 +0000

Oh Jen, that’s a tough road you’re on. I’m glad you’ve found somewhere to get some support. I think it’s essential.

Hugs to you~
Kathleen

By: Renae

Renae — Fri, 02 Nov 2007 22:44:27 +0000

Your love will be rewarded. May the Lord give you His grace and peace as you care for your mother. I will be praying for you.